Anyone else humming Justin Bieber with that line? Couldn’t help it. Today, we’re chatting about building your self confidence.
We all have bad days. The days where we have no motivation to do anything: we don’t feel pretty and we don’t feel our best. We all have those days and I have a few tips on how to change them. Here are some ideas on how to improve your self confidence.
1) Girls Night Out
Dress up, put some lipstick on and go out to dinner with your best friends. Spend some time with friends that make you feel good about yourself. Make sure these friends don’t surround you with negativity. It’s always nice to get together with your friends, maybe take some cute pics. These nights always bring joy and memories that you’ll never forget!
2) Phone a Friend
Okay, that might sound like an obvious thing, but think about it. When was the last time you picked up your phone and actually spoke to a friend? Not just texting or Snapchatting? I know that when I actually get on the phone and chat with a friend who I haven’t spoken to in a while, it always makes me feel better. Now, you may have just seen your bestie at school, but when was the last time you had a good, deep, and long conversation. If you can make it work, meet at your favorite coffee shop for some time in person.
3) Change Your Look
Maybe you’re tired of the same old nail polish color, switch it up a bit. Go get your nails done. A fresh set of nails always makes me feel put together and brand new. You can also change your hair. You can get a haircut, or maybe dye it. There are a lot of different styles you can choose from. Lastly, there’s shopping to upgrade your wardrobe. Spice it up a little bit try wearing those cute ankle booties, maybe you will like them. There are many different ways to changing up your look, it’s your choice on what you prefer.
4) Be Kind To Yourself
Let’s cut the negative and stop degrading ourselves. We are enough. Stop pointing out what you don’t like about yourself and point out what you like. You are beautiful just the way you are and there’s no need to be so hard on yourself.
5) Be Kind To Others
Doing something for someone else brightens your mood. When you are rude to someone else that reflects on your personality and you will be disappointed in yourself. This will lead to lack of confidence. When you compliment others or just make there day by being kind and inviting that will boost your confidence, being a kind person is something to confident about.
Do you have any tips that have helped you when you get into a funk? We all have those days where we feel off. And it’s okay. However, it’s important to take note of days like that and find ways to help get out of that mood.